http://www.tasarimciyiz.net Sat, 17 May 2008 07:36:42 +0000 http://backend.userland.com/rss092 en There are many different Christian sex beliefs which people will claim to be right and wrong. The problem is, there are some who believe one particular practice is wrong, while another group will find the practice perfectly acceptable. So how do you discern who is right and who is wrong? ... http://www.tasarimciyiz.net/2008/10/christian-sex-beliefs-whats-right-whats-wrong/ Have you ever been told you are "unreasonably happy?" Is that one of the oddest things you've ever heard? It was for me. How can happiness be unreasonable? If I was giddy, or manic, or obviously unhinged, I'd understand the comment. But that's never been the case. Those comments were directed toward me ... http://www.tasarimciyiz.net/2008/10/5-keys-to-happiness/ Organized religion and the standards of marriage have been intertwined for centuries but in the early Roman period the Catholic Church eliminated other forms of marriage and established monogamy as the appropriate marital relationship. As Christianity took root in Europe so did monogamy and other forms of marital relationships receded ... http://www.tasarimciyiz.net/2008/10/a-perspective-on-the-history-of-mormon-fundamentalism/ Mormon fundamentalism is decidedly hierarchal as are many organized religions but in the case of Mormon fundamentalism there are also the factors of polygamy and patriarchy which are not merely cultural elements but are actual tenets or requirements in order to receive salvation. There is much dysfunction and mismanagement of ... http://www.tasarimciyiz.net/2008/10/individuality-and-freedom/ I fear for my life when the to do lists take over. Notice plural. I can't live without them and I can barely live with them. Of course, there's more than one. They grow, they multiply, they spawn themselves into more. I write my lists to capture all the stuff ... http://www.tasarimciyiz.net/2008/10/i-am-not-my-todo-list-or-am-i/ Have you even known someone--or perhaps it describes you--who falls for every "get rich quick" scheme they come into contact with? These schemes always are described as "work free" (also touted as passive income). They are supposed to be easy, fast, and foolproof (risk free). Just pay your money (usually ... http://www.tasarimciyiz.net/2008/10/what-is-the-distinction-between-a-scheme-and-a-plan/ Your concept of what constitutes winning and losing can be defined by you or by others. Most of us allow others to dictate how we see winning and losing for ourselves. This is a fundamental mistake. How can it make sense to live our lives according to the opinions of ... http://www.tasarimciyiz.net/2008/10/redefining-winning-and-losing/ requently clients have a tendency to quit taking actions that create forward motion--when they get scared. One of the biggest fear factors is actual or feared financial meltdowns. It's easy to buy into the terrifying noise coming from the TV in the corner. You could wake up on a beautiful ... http://www.tasarimciyiz.net/2008/10/some-thoughts-on-quittingduring-financial-quotmeltdownsquot/ Do you feel burdened by so many problems that you are tempted to just give up? Does it seem that no matter what you do, you can't get some positive momentum going? Do you think that no matter what you do, nothing works? Do you wonder how to get your ... http://www.tasarimciyiz.net/2008/10/just-keep-moving/ What does the phrase, "Dark Night of the Soul" mean? It refers to those sleepless nights when we find ourselves troubled and torn and without answers, crying in the night. Another phrase that correlates closely is, "It's always darkest before the dawn." If you've ever observed this phenomenon, it does ... http://www.tasarimciyiz.net/2008/10/dark-night-of-the-soul/